Hello. So now I'm thinking purple, lavender, and silver!!! I really like it. I could still incorporate the butterflies if I wanted.
Dark chocolate hershey kisses are purple, and the regular ones are silver, these I could have on the tables, perfect metallica silver and purple decorations that are cheap and pretty!

Grape Jones Soda with Cherries!! :) ? or some kind of grape cocktail....or grape koolaid for the kiddos.

I love the silver bridesmaid dress at the top left corner and the purple one on the bottom right, I could incorporate both I think.





then maybe the guys in black tuxedos, with silver vests, and instead of this boe tie, just a lavender flower pinned. haha they will love me for this